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		<title>by: Simon</title>
		<link>http://www.intolerantelle.com/?p=562#comment-18639</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2005 03:04:32 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Ste Em.

Nice argument.  Eve was a woman who had a choice.  She made a bad choice.  Therefore, whenever women choose, it is bad.  Very convincing.

And by the way:  saying the feminism predated abortion debates doesn't make it so.  Read some history.  At the least, there were abortion debates in this country in the 19th century.  The kind of feminism you attack did not come about until the latter part of the 20th century.</description>
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	<p>Nice argument.  Eve was a woman who had a choice.  She made a bad choice.  Therefore, whenever women choose, it is bad.  Very convincing.</p>
	<p>And by the way:  saying the feminism predated abortion debates doesn&#8217;t make it so.  Read some history.  At the least, there were abortion debates in this country in the 19th century.  The kind of feminism you attack did not come about until the latter part of the 20th century.
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		<title>by: Ste. Em</title>
		<link>http://www.intolerantelle.com/?p=562#comment-17213</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2005 02:32:48 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Let's follow with this premise that feminism is good because it gives a woman choise.

Eve made a choice.

Therefore what Eve did was good for mankind.

This is what Gnosticism says, too.

And that is precisely how Feminist Theology runs with it. In fact that is how feminism in general &quot;validates&quot; the humanity of women. She is fully human *because* she can make a choice. Eventually all sorts of mischief ensues. And, btw, it is feminism which predates abortion. The latter is a product of the former. 

Elle, you are dead straight on. For a good read on how much so, try F. Carolyn Graglia, Domestic Tranquility: A  Brief Against Feminism.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Let&#8217;s follow with this premise that feminism is good because it gives a woman choise.</p>
	<p>Eve made a choice.</p>
	<p>Therefore what Eve did was good for mankind.</p>
	<p>This is what Gnosticism says, too.</p>
	<p>And that is precisely how Feminist Theology runs with it. In fact that is how feminism in general &#8220;validates&#8221; the humanity of women. She is fully human *because* she can make a choice. Eventually all sorts of mischief ensues. And, btw, it is feminism which predates abortion. The latter is a product of the former. </p>
	<p>Elle, you are dead straight on. For a good read on how much so, try F. Carolyn Graglia, Domestic Tranquility: A  Brief Against Feminism.
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		<title>by: Simon</title>
		<link>http://www.intolerantelle.com/?p=562#comment-16407</link>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Nov 2005 15:29:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>&quot;Surely you don’t include the millions of babies who have been dismembered and murdered in their mother’s wombs? Surely you’re not talking about the children who are abandoned on a daily basis to strangers in daycares for the sake of a lifestyle with more material goods?&quot;

First, let's separate out the abortion issue. I was not addressing that at all. Abortion debates predate feminism.

Second, you're loading the issue by saying that women &quot;abandon their children to strangers&quot; and by saying that it is for &quot;a lifestyle with more material goods.&quot;  My wife has worked while we had children and it was not for money or more material goods.  I think you don't see that many people -- men and women -- actually find meaning in their lives by engaging in professions through which they use their minds, creativity, etc. And, you're also missing that not all parents are good parents. Perhaps that is why studies show that children in daycare are as healthy and doing as well in school as children raised by full-time moms.  Now I am NOT advocating that moms should not stay home.  I am saying that you are loading the dice by saying that women &quot;abandon&quot; their kids for the &quot;sake of material goods</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>&#8220;Surely you don’t include the millions of babies who have been dismembered and murdered in their mother’s wombs? Surely you’re not talking about the children who are abandoned on a daily basis to strangers in daycares for the sake of a lifestyle with more material goods?&#8221;</p>
	<p>First, let&#8217;s separate out the abortion issue. I was not addressing that at all. Abortion debates predate feminism.</p>
	<p>Second, you&#8217;re loading the issue by saying that women &#8220;abandon their children to strangers&#8221; and by saying that it is for &#8220;a lifestyle with more material goods.&#8221;  My wife has worked while we had children and it was not for money or more material goods.  I think you don&#8217;t see that many people &#8212; men and women &#8212; actually find meaning in their lives by engaging in professions through which they use their minds, creativity, etc. And, you&#8217;re also missing that not all parents are good parents. Perhaps that is why studies show that children in daycare are as healthy and doing as well in school as children raised by full-time moms.  Now I am NOT advocating that moms should not stay home.  I am saying that you are loading the dice by saying that women &#8220;abandon&#8221; their kids for the &#8220;sake of material goods
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		<title>by: Opie</title>
		<link>http://www.intolerantelle.com/?p=562#comment-16403</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2005 23:48:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I can't believe that co-worker made that comment. Well, actually I can; what I can't believe is that feminists say things like that to women like you and then get so frustrated when we don't blindly accept their ideas.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>I can&#8217;t believe that co-worker made that comment. Well, actually I can; what I can&#8217;t believe is that feminists say things like that to women like you and then get so frustrated when we don&#8217;t blindly accept their ideas.
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		<title>by: Chaz</title>
		<link>http://www.intolerantelle.com/?p=562#comment-16389</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2005 20:37:44 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Dowd is playing on a quotation by Gloria Steinem:

A woman needs a &lt;b&gt;man&lt;/b&gt; like a fish needs a bicycle.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>Dowd is playing on a quotation by Gloria Steinem:</p>
	<p>A woman needs a <b>man</b> like a fish needs a bicycle.
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		<title>by: Elle</title>
		<link>http://www.intolerantelle.com/?p=562#comment-16384</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2005 15:56:22 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>We are all better off because of feminism?  Surely you don't include the millions of babies who have been dismembered and murdered in their mother's wombs?  Surely you're not talking about the children who are abandoned on a daily basis to strangers in daycares for the sake of a lifestyle with more material goods?  Women have been working throughout history.  It's not a recent innovation.

Social pressure for parents to sacrifice and actually spend time raising their children is a good thing, Simon.  I don't want to be free from that.  I don't have a problem with women in positions of influence.  I happen to think that a woman's influence is very important.  However, it's not worth it when it is at the expense of her family.

It seems to me like you're missing the fact that the position of mother is the most influential position any woman will ever have.  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>We are all better off because of feminism?  Surely you don&#8217;t include the millions of babies who have been dismembered and murdered in their mother&#8217;s wombs?  Surely you&#8217;re not talking about the children who are abandoned on a daily basis to strangers in daycares for the sake of a lifestyle with more material goods?  Women have been working throughout history.  It&#8217;s not a recent innovation.</p>
	<p>Social pressure for parents to sacrifice and actually spend time raising their children is a good thing, Simon.  I don&#8217;t want to be free from that.  I don&#8217;t have a problem with women in positions of influence.  I happen to think that a woman&#8217;s influence is very important.  However, it&#8217;s not worth it when it is at the expense of her family.</p>
	<p>It seems to me like you&#8217;re missing the fact that the position of mother is the most influential position any woman will ever have.
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		<title>by: Simon</title>
		<link>http://www.intolerantelle.com/?p=562#comment-16378</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2005 14:35:43 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>I think you're missing something important, though, Elle.  One great consequence for feminism, even for you, if that you can see your future choice to be a stay-at-home mom as just that:  a choice.  You have the option now of having a career.  The coercive social pressure for you to stay home as dwindled, although it is not completely gone.  And now you can say that you have chosen to stay home instead of pursuing a career.  And, other women, with different aspirations, don't have to make the same choice and confine themselves to what they would perceive as an undesirable life of staying at home. Now they have the choice to have a career. And now we have more women in positions of power because of it. And I, for one, think we're better off with more women in positions of influence.

So while you voice your objection to feminism, I suggest that we all -- including you -- are better off now that some of its ideas have been accepted.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>I think you&#8217;re missing something important, though, Elle.  One great consequence for feminism, even for you, if that you can see your future choice to be a stay-at-home mom as just that:  a choice.  You have the option now of having a career.  The coercive social pressure for you to stay home as dwindled, although it is not completely gone.  And now you can say that you have chosen to stay home instead of pursuing a career.  And, other women, with different aspirations, don&#8217;t have to make the same choice and confine themselves to what they would perceive as an undesirable life of staying at home. Now they have the choice to have a career. And now we have more women in positions of power because of it. And I, for one, think we&#8217;re better off with more women in positions of influence.</p>
	<p>So while you voice your objection to feminism, I suggest that we all &#8212; including you &#8212; are better off now that some of its ideas have been accepted.
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		<title>by: SaintFloyd</title>
		<link>http://www.intolerantelle.com/?p=562#comment-16363</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2005 13:26:02 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>Mom Power!</description>
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		<title>by: Kelly</title>
		<link>http://www.intolerantelle.com/?p=562#comment-16320</link>
		<pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2005 06:10:16 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description>An excellent G.K. Chesterton quote on the topic:  &quot;Twenty million young women rose to their feet with the cry 'We will not be dictated to', and promptly became stenographers.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p>An excellent G.K. Chesterton quote on the topic:  &#8220;Twenty million young women rose to their feet with the cry &#8216;We will not be dictated to&#8217;, and promptly became stenographers.&#8221;
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